Bro and sis, stop it will you?

What is people problem with words?
When you're too happy, you say nice words and sometimes promised all the happy ever after thingy
And when you're upset, you use harsh words and even cursed like no one ever felt misery and despair

Dan Allah lahirkan manusia itu semuanya berbeza-beza
Beza sifatnya
Beza tingkah lakunya
Tetapi tetap sama, semua punya akal yang sihat untuk berfikir *kecuali untuk sesetengah situasi

Cuba bayangkan
Situasi 1:
Kereta yang dipandu begitu lambat sehingga melambatkan pergerakan kita

Situasi 2:
Kereta yang masuk simpang tanpa memberikan lampu isyarat

Situasi 3:
Insan yang melakukan kesilapan kecil tanpa disengajakan

Ketiga-tiga situasi ini, apa biasanya reaksi atau kata-kata yang akan dihamburkan?

Jawapan:
1."Eh, lembabnya kereta ni, apa ke bodoh sangat"
2. "Eh, pekak ke? Saya cakap lain, lain yang awak buat"

Biasa dengar dengan jawapan-jawapan ini?
Atau anda sendiri pernah mengeluarkan kata-kata ini?

Wallahi,
Bila mana Allah kurniakan akal, gunakanlah ia sebaiknya

"Those filthy words that came out from your mouth is a prove that there were no sign of brain usage during the action" (SA, 2016)

Kata mudahnya, siapa yang kurang bijak sebenarnya
People who uses their brain, will never say those kind of things
People who have brain, will actually think first before they actually say any words

Terlajak perahu boleh diundur
Terlajak kata buruk padahnya

Every words that came out from our mouth is a du'a
A du'a that we sent to Allah for us
So means that, we are actually saying those filthy words to us

Want to me more dumb than we already are?
If its a yes, go ahead, continue cursing and maki hamun other people and show that we have no brain at all

To restrain ourselves from saying mean words is pretty much a difficult job to do
But that's why there's a hadith;

Narrated by Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: "A strong man is not the one who wrestles others; rather, a strong man is the one who controls himself at times of anger.” [The Book of Al-Birr: Sahih Muslim]

Islam is the most gentle and purest religion

Never intrude it by showing bad behaviours and examples

When you're angry, count to 5 and istighfar

When you're about to burst, think yourself in a situation that you were the one who is being cursed

(sakitnya tu disini) 

Kata ibarat pedang yang tajamnya bisa membunuh lawan
Kata-kata yang berhikmah menyedarkan kita
Kata madah pujangga bisa menjadi pedoman manusia
Jagalah bahasa kata kita
Jangan disalah guna

It is not easy, I know

But bare with it, pahala banyak woo tahan sabar =)